We all love a big dick, don’t we?
Do we though?
When I think about all of my most fulfilling experiences, I would be lying if I said big dicks aren’t in the top numbers. Now my smaller brothers, please don’t panic because you the real MVP’s and some of you man are up in there too.
Big dicks are fun and all, but I need to warm up to that stroke game. It’s like I want the energy of you pounding the fuck out of me from the get go, but if you actually do; I will die. Cause of death - punctured lung. It does eventually get to the point where I don’t squirm like a little bitch. It just takes a while to get there. If you know me, you’ll be aware that I’m not the most patient person in the world; something I’m intently working on. Going in for the kill too early is a recipe for disaster for me. And by disaster I mean UTI central and we definitely don’t want that; I’m sensitive down there.
Then there poses the question of, would you rather have too much dick or not enough? We can always add to ‘not enough’ whether it be fingers, toys and so on. Too much dick can be stressful. I don’t want to sound ungrateful but you’ve been fucking me for hours now and I’m sore. Let’s round it up big man.
Sucking big dick brings me great joy.
In all honesty the task in general brings me great joy, doesn’t matter the size, as long as its consensual and clean. I love an average sized because I’m not fully dying and I can get fab angles for sliding it to the back of my throat. Smaller sizes are interesting because for some reason, my main goal is to get the balls into my mouth too. But sucking on a big dick, wow, there’s just so much you can try and I’m always up for a challenge. Might die from the choking but at least I passed doing something I loved.
It's an art.
Anyway getting back to the point, when I was reminiscing about this list of best sex I’ve had, a few less than average sized men came into play. A common theme occurred, their size didn’t matter - It’s not just a saying. As you know I’m spiritually inclined and pretty sensitive to energy. Being a projector I absorb energy and amplify it. If you struggle with energy management and aren’t aware of your human design, give me a message. Energy isn’t a fucking joke, it is POWERFUL. When I say less than average sized men, I mean it’s 3 inches on hard and I am cumming on repeat…
With great energy comes great sexual experiences.
Men who are aware of how to direct their sexual energy are devilish. Have you ever been so HOT that you’ve almost climaxed? He will barely be touching you, but if you’re tuned in, you’re turn’t all the way on. If you’re on the smaller side, developing this skill is essential. Understanding your strengths and finding workarounds should be a focus, trying to fuck like you have a big dick will not go down well. Own what you have but don’t oversell it. A lot of men have learnt from porn and it shows, we have Tim doing the same stroke as 10 inch Tyson, it doesn’t work like that, boo.
You need to come with BDE plus a few cheeky surprises, ya zimme?
You don’t need a big dick for BDE. Big Dick Energy is all about how YOU feel about yourself and how you show up in the world and for others; same as BBE. It's a knowing, an authenticity, a vulnerability, an awareness. It is owning everything you are with confidence, sharing it openly, and not allowing others to shake you. All of this accumulates with life experience, experimenting is essential and we know the best place to do this sexually, is with someone/someone's you deem as safe.
I know men always think it's about being ‘the best’ with women but it's not. It’s about being memorable. Lads, in reality it's unlikely you are the best she’s had; she just doesn’t want to hurt your ego. Or she’s madly in love with you and the shit pipe game is overlooked, because she doesn't know how to express her desires, and doesnt want to hurt your feelings. Same goes for men and pussy. They're just more likely to cheat rather than having an open and honest conversation about their unfulfilled fantasies.
All scenarios mentioned are disappointing, but a reality for many.
Your long-term partner doesn’t have to be the best you’ve ever had, its actually not that common. More time its the ocean of intimacy you are both choosing to swim in, and the beautiful connection you have that keeps the sex half interesting. That’s if you’re not naturally, sexually ravenous. Those with a larger appetite will need more frequent and variable forms of stimulation - sex is a priority.
Long-term relationships can require more effort in the bedroom, naturally we can become bored with the same shit over and over again. It's important to keep that excitement and spontaneity there. When you’re in a committed monogamous relationship, you begin to learn your partners routine, their habits, their likes and dislikes. Ultimately, the sex should become superior because we know each other better, however, this can have the opposite effect and create the choreographed chore of sex.
No-one wants that shit.
Unfortunately, many couples begin to neglect the adventurous side of their sexual relationship or begin to use sex as a weapon. We get into our heads and let the mundane daily routines exhaust us, emotions run high and resentment begins to creep in. Sex is not a reward for good behaviour and withholding it is not a punishment for bad. It annoys me when I hear women refer to it as such. I do believe as a woman (if I am in a committed relationship) it is my duty to ensure my man feels heard, seen and appreciated. I expect the same, and If I'm not feeling that from his actions, then it is my responsibility to sit down and have the discussion. Withholding physical touch due to an accumulation of unexpressed anger just makes no fucking sense.
Go suck his dick and say sorry.
Lets get back to the dicks rather than relationships, soz about that, its winter and ya girl is in need of some deeper intimacy #thestruggle. Man with the absolute wangs, you need to be clocking your ting when you’re having play time. Yes you have a weapon but we’re not looking to get hurt, okay? Well, us healed bitches aren’t, the numb bitches need ya. Pain and pleasure looks similar, listen to her if she tells you to chill the fuck out. Might feel good to you but you are potentially creating a lot of ongoing problems for her such as: bleeding, bladder issues, bacterial vaginosis, UTI, permanent damage to vaginal tissue which can effect chances of pregnancy and so on.
But when the big dick bruddas know how to STROKE, Lord…
That’s Heaven. I have done some mad shit for good big dick, like given men the opportunity to take me for a cunt emotionally and financially because I am so in love with his piece. It really can turn a bitch looney and as much as the men complain about it, they bloody love it. However, like I mentioned before, some of my most adventurous and fun sessions have been with average/less than average sized men. Some positions are more enjoyable with smaller sizes and others more enjoyable with larger. It doesn’t really matter the size, you just need to know how to rock her shit.
Everyone is going to provide you with different experiences and that’s the magic.
I found that in my immature years, when presented with less than what I’d hope for, I wasn’t fully present in the union when it took place. My head was focused on the lack, ‘where is the rest of it?’. When my head was in this space, how am I giving this guy a fair chance? Rather than focusing on what I was missing, I should have been focusing on what he was providing and how I could make the experience better for both of us. Sex is all to do with our hormones so when they come into harmony with our partners, it’s in this moment that you reach new levels of ecstasy.
We all have different preferences but each experience is what we make of it. Shit sex has rarely anything to do with size and everything to do with lack of skill in general, and lack of alignment between partners.
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